25 peeps is moving up, i had a complimentary email from someone off there who wanted to know when they'd get to see more, i suggested they tell me what they wanted in time for HNT and we'll see...same goes for everyone else, if you've got a suggestion, just leave me a comment and i'll sort something out...depending on what it is, it might have to go over to the anon site though (which i've posted on before)
for those who are counting this is my 3rd post of the day
excessive for me i know
anyway there is a reason for this 3rd post
i can't stop thinking abut someone
and although this is not something new
it is something that may cause a problem
and basically i'm just here to get it out in the open that there is a certain someone that i'd like to get to know better and i haven't got a clue in how to do it best
normally i'd just get in there and find out as much as i could about her before asking her if she wanted to go for a drink
but this time i'm struggling
it's not like i can't chat to her, because when i see her i do chat to her, with ease. but i just can't seem to ask for her number or anything like that
is it because the only time i normally see her is when there's a group of people round?
does that make it easier to talk to her?
or is it that they are there and i don't want to ask for her number because of that?
if that's the case then there coul be an issue, because they are always there when i see her
i could get her number under the pretense of a differentreason, but then that's just as bad really as not being able to ask, or even it's worse because i've asked for it for one reason, but i'm using it for another reason...
i know someone who has her number, but i don't want to ask him i should be able to do this myself...
i'm lost on this one
it doesn't help that in a couple of months i'll be learning to dance with her
isn't the tango supposed ot be one of the steamiest of dances?
dammit
oh well
there's TMI below this and another normal post below that if you've got the time
but seriously need the help on this one
laters peeps
Px
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12 comments:
I'd have to know more about how she reacts to you when you guys are talking to one another in order to give an appropriate answer, but I think you should just go for it. Its obvious from your post that you really like her a lot. You don't want to not ask and plague yourself with the what-ifs. So take a deep breath and pop the question.
I'm with LadyXandria...GO FOR IT! If you still find that you can't bring yourself to ask her, wait until the dance lessons start; if things seem to be going well..ask her if she'd like to get together and "get in a bit of extra practice"...might be a good segway...
On another note, I've been linking you for ages now through 25 peeps..I clicked over there tonight to get to your blog and *le sigh* you were gone! I panicked for a moment afraid I'd not be able to find you, but luckily I remebered you'd visited a few days ago! Guess it's officially time to blogroll you if you don't mind!
please put on some clothes.
i'm pretty sure england has them.
Oooh, sounds very promising on the job front, so now that's sorted and we know that you visit adult stores, ;) , it's definitely time to bite the bullet and just ask this girl for her number. For all you know, she's waiting for you to do so - ya never know. So, go for it, and good luck!
ladyxandria
popping the question implies a lot more than just asking her for her number or if she'd like to go for a drink sometime...
becca
blogroll away, i'll do the same, i was thinking of waiting and asking her if she wanted to go for a drink one time after the class...
fu
i will now
Autumn
i guess i'll be asking sometime soon then, doesn't mean that i don't have the fear though and all that
I know I was personally attracted to a man who took initiative if he was interested in me. I LOATHED waiting around awkwardly, and then being forced to make the first move. Lame.
Show her you're a strong, aggressive (non-violently aggressive of course) man.
It's a huge turn on to a woman if she senses the man has confidence in himself.
trouble is i'm not that confident!
Fake it till you make it.
:)
easier said than done i'm sure...but i will try i guess
It's not that hard to pretend you're great!
You probably ARE great! Just start talking to yourself in the mirror...
"I am NOT a Pussy"
"I am NOT a Pussy"
"I am NOT a Pussy"
If you haven't seen "Entourage" on HBO, that was a quote from the second to last show last season.
next time you are all hanging out together, as the group is breaking up and saying good-byes, just casually say, "can i get your number so we can hang out just the two of us?" Kill two birds with one stone... she knows you're interested and you are already in the process of leaving if it doesn't go well.
alicia
you're right, but i've done my morning ritual for today
it involved me standing in front of the miror and cutting my face several times because the razor i've got at the moment is crap!
AYC
you have got the best plan i think there has been so far...maybe i'll do it
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